Just like character is the most important quality of a good guy, the woman you’re going to marry should have good character as well. When you find her, she is more valuable than anything. Here are 10 qualities of good future wife material:
1. She shares your beliefs
When it comes to finding your wife, take the time to get confirmation! Your potential wife should share common beliefs with you. If you don’t share core beliefs, choosing the wrong mate can drastically take you off of your own course and lead to a waste of valuable time progressing toward what you have accomplished and grown to at this point in your life.
2. She makes you a better man
Your potential wife should elevate you to Yourself 2.0. You can get a good idea from your friends and family. However, she should bring out the best in you, and she won’t let you settle for less than what you deserve. She is your cheerleader, even when you have given up on yourself. She is not just invested in your dream, she is invested in you and no matter which turn life takes she will be right there.
3. She’s trustworthy
In fact, she should inspire trustworthiness within you. If you don’t trust her, it’s not going to work. This woman will ultimately be a reflection of everything you wanted in your life. She holds the secrets that you have never been able to share with anyone else, more less talk about out loud. Trust embodies a true connection with yourself and being able to be vulnerable. This is a key that should not be given to just any woman that ask for it and only the well deserving one’s know what to do with it.
4. She has ambition
She should have strength in her character and carry herself with confidence. As well as inspired ambition to lead her family, provide strength and support, and always strive for more from herself and the ones she loves.
5. She’s selfless
She should care about others and want to help or give of herself, even when not asked. If you find this quality in a woman she is a gem which you definitely want to keep. True love is given without the expectation of return and when it is reciprocated the relationship has a healthy flow of positive and loving energy which creates a wonderful momentum of giving and sharing unconditionally.
6. She’s attractive
In your eyes, she should be a “10.” She’s beautiful from the inside out. Personality plays into attractiveness big-time. Just remember, “charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting.” She should be beautiful down to her soul because that is the kind of beauty that lasts forever.
7. She’s smart
You’re going to be spending a lot of time with her, so she should be able to hold a good conversation. She should be wise, smart, and give you good advice. Her women’s intuition should be strong.
8. She loves you unconditionally
Your future wife see’s your potential and uses your failures as growth to help you learn and be better, regardless of anything you’ve done in your past. She should ask questions about where you see yourself and where you want to go; as she will always want you to be happy and achieve your dreams and desires. If she is just focused on what you are giving her right now, then most likely, she will become unhappy when you don’t have it to give.
9. She’s responsible
She should already do a good job of managing her own life and is a wizard at integrating the daily task of work, family and making time for the man she loves even more. For the man she loves, she is happily exhausted to take on the world because he fuels her with making sure that she knows that she is always #1 on his priority list in every way he can.
10. She gets along with your family and friends
There are times when the flow of family and friends is easy and sometimes it’s not. This is dependent upon how you present the love of your life from the beginning. If you don’t show love and respect her as the choice that you made. No one else will!
If she is truly invested in you, she will see things that you might miss, but she ultimately has your best interest at heart and does not take that role lightly. Cherish her opinion and always highlight the best of her to your family and friends. This will allow others to see the woman you fell in love with and they will love her as well.
Most of all, enjoy the journey.